Monday, February 25, 2008
I don't know what happened since I left Hampton but I have befriended so many females who are man hungry. Maybe my friends at Hampton were that way but we were younger and it wasn't marriage time (probably not). But I have this one friend who I am slowly pushing away from b/c no matter what our friend situation is her man comes first. I have no problem with your man being important to you but sometimes your girl needs you and your man needs to hang with his boys. Anyway I figure that since she is living her life with her man and not concerned about what is going on with me and my life I have to go live my life. I can't do what makes her happy whenever she wants it. Like my whole birthday celebration--I have been planning this weekend for at least six months--don't come at me with the whole well I can't come down for your birthday but I hope to see you at so and so's event. I never promised to go to so and so's event and don't get mad when I say I may not show. So and so is getting married and I would love to go to her wedding but I have other obligations. My cousin is getting married the weekend after and I know that she is going to need help getting ready. Sorry to say but in this situation family comes first. Don't try to plan my life b/c you falling down on your friend job. Whenever this friend wants to do something I have to change my plans to accommodate and that is not going to happen any longer. So I am slowing stepping away from her. I would tell her how I feel but everyone who points out her man problem gets kicked to the curb basically. No need for me to get kicked to the curb if I am going to walk to the curb.