Sunday, March 23, 2008

Let's Talk About It

Ok so I have been doing some thinking and there are things that the general public need to know so I thought I would touch on them.

First off:
Cut friends, Friends with Benefits or whatever you want to call them.
I never want to be one but if it were to work for some the best thing to do is only talk when you have to. People catch feelings off conversation. I mean you can catch feelings off the act alone but more likely than not the feelings come from the conversation. The woman thinks he is really listening to me and maybe this could work. Then the drama starts. If you just want to get your freak on do that. Make a phone call to say, "I am on my way," or "I am waiting for you." That is all the conversation you need if you want to call that conversation.

Guys with girlfriends will not be your man (and if they do become your man don't you think he will do you the same way he did his ex).
If he has a girlfriend and he is trying to talk to you and he tells you he has a girlfriend he doesn't want a relationship with you. Don't give me the statement about I don't owe his girlfriend anything. This is not about his girlfriend--this is about you. You owe yourself a whole man. Sharing is not caring when it comes to a man.

Foundation. I had to make that a one word sentence b/c I am tired of people wearing makeup for Keyshia Cole's complexion when they are Mary J. Blige's complexion. (Just one example) Who started that and why? No one should notice your foundation. Maybe your shadow and blush (only in a good way) but never your foundation.

1 comment:

The Breaking Point said...

You have really hit the nail on the head with this one.

What's really good with all the convo if all we're doing is cuttin'? The only thing we need to discuss is: date, time, place. Past that we're treading upon uncertain ground. I'm not on that.