So let's talk about my issues with the first post:
1. If I say I don't want to go out with you every time you ask, why don't you just stop asking?
2. Why are you so dramatical? It is life change, wtf?
3. If I say I have issues respect that. I don't want to deal with you and my issues.
4. Why do you think I want to date you if you are dealing with the same thing? I don't want to deal with my issues and your issues. Call me selfish but I know me.
5. Why did I even give him my phone number? At least he has stopped calling so much.
6. How can you nicely say you are not interested? I just want to say I don't like you but I don't think it will come even that nice.